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Just
happened....some feedback from Colombo:
One wave after another filled the parking lot of Jayaratne Funeral Parlour
and adjoing streets, General Cemetery area in Borella was blocked for
trafic. Politicians, Patricians, friends and dignitaries gave their last
respect, police motor-gate to honour and they arrived by the thousands
for a stately funeral to say a final farewell to Ranjan. The Sri Lankan
Basketball Ferderation members were at the main gate of the cemetery with
flags to pay their last respect.
The death of a loved one can shake us to our very foundations. When the
person is so young and so full of potential and hope ---- the feelings
of grief and loss can be even more overwhelming.
You are free to pour out your grief, release your anger, face your emptiness,
and know that God cares. At times such as this some turn to our friends
and family for support, for a shoulder to cry on and for someone to walk
that road of pain and anguish with us. At times such as this some turn
to our faith, to the scriptures and to the church community for the assurance
that we are not alone, that someone greater than us watches over us and
that our loved one has found the peace in death.
I would like to express on behalf of the Patricians, Familians, and friends
and InterSector our deepest sympathy to Chitranjan's family, Mohan &
mum Mahes teacher. What has been taken from you neither words nor time
can replace. And while all of us share in your loss - we cannot truly
share in the pain of your loss. But we want you to know that Ranjan lived
for the love of his family.
For
those who don't know Ranjan, a brief remembrance: ( ..little ... what
I knew.. )
Not even reached his 50th birthday Ranjan always dreamed of being a top
sportsman. He loved most sports and participated in all. Few years junior
to me in College and I can't tell you when Ranjan first decided to make
a difference, but can tell you that by the time he was in his teens, he
has already had represented the district in basketball. Represented St
Patrick's College and Northern Province in every sports and athletics
and won many awards. Later captained the Police Team and lead them to
victory in many occassions and then became the Secretary.
Ranjan got his promotions and was appointed as Superintendent of Police,
Colombo - Traffic Division. I am sure all agree that, he served the Sri
Lankan Police Force with courage and honour offered us hope that the values
of we treasured - liberty, equality and the rule of law - would long endure.
He was actively involved in the SPC-OBA and was the Secretary which he
enjoyed.
He was there to give help to anyone, was protective of his friends and
was in many ways a peacemaker between them. He was a very sensitive and
caring child and was helpful to his family and to the neighbours. Even
though he had a common boyish naughty side he was truly well liked by
all. He was a child who truly marveled at the things most take for granted.
His brother Prof Mohan says that Ranjan was the best brother & friend
he ever had and remembers playing catch, enjoying their quiet talks together
and listening to their tales. Mum - Mahes teacher of HFC remembers waiting
for him to come from school when he would be half and hour behind the
others talking to his friends. His friends remember the good times they
had together in school, also in Toronto & in the UK Global Reunion.
To his friends and classmates he was smart, funny and loyal. To his fellow
officers and subordinates, he was a reliable brother bringing them the
atmosphere they need to carryout their duties. And to all who knew him
- and the thousands more around the world and others who didn't - he was
a hero.
He wasn't told to serve in the police force - he wanted to serve. He wasn't
told to put his family first that's what he did. He wasn't told to be
the best of the best - he asked for nothing more than to find his purpose
in life - and in doing so became the best of the best and was his way
of making a difference.
That he would die at such
a young age - makes his death all the more difficult to bear. We will
never know what great things he would have accomplished had his medical
condition was diagnosed in the early stages. But that does not diminish
or obscure what he had already achieved. Measured by years, his life was
short. Measured by courage, valor and grace - he died young. He died leaving
behind his wife Marina and two beautiful young children. His family and
friends who will love him and miss him forever. We mourn him and we pray
that his proud family finds comfort and peace at this time of loss.
You are free to give me information
or write about your experiences and/or friendship and we are more than
happy to post it in our website. My computer has a collection of many
pictures taken during 2001 and 2004 Reunion. These images don't need words,
they speak for themselves and we'll be loading it in our website soon.
Nevertheless, these pictures do share these thoughts but we jointly say,
"Ranjan is, above all." - Ferdi
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A tribute to Chitranjan from the SPC Alumni
Association UK
Dr. Anton E A Joseph
It is with deep sense of sadness that we in London heard of the illness
of Chitranjan a short while ago. It came as great surprise to hear that
Chitranjan whom we met in London during the Global reunion full of energy
and a picture of health had been struck down with cancer. It was even
more painful to hear that he succumbed to his illness within such a short
time.
There are many in the SPC alumni association UK who were close friends
of his and others who had had met him in London for the first time when
he took part in the global reunion celebrations. Everyone without exception
admired his dedication to his alma mater. He was already making big plans
for the global reunion in Colombo. It is a certainty that he will be an
active participant in spirit when the reunion takes place.
There will be many tributes paid to him with many references to his great
attributes. The UK SPC alumni association unite with alumni associations
all over the globe in the expression of the tributes. While saddened by
his untimely death we also celebrate his life and his achievements. We
thank God for permitting him to be a Patrician. A Patrician who lived
his life that Patricians would be proud to feel that he was one of us.
We grieve over the loss of a friend and stalwart of St. Patrick's College.
But we remember at this time the deep anguish and the sense of loss felt
by his wife and children. We share in the sorrows that only a mother can
feel over the loss of her son. We express our sincere condolences to Professor
Chitramohan his brother and assure him of our prayers to bear this loss.
May his soul rest in peace.
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CHITRA- Legacy of a Patrician SUPER STAR
Alex Arulanandam (UK)
Chitra's last parting words to Johnson were, "Machan please pray
for me". This is a reflection of his deep faith in the Divine Order.
He never let go his faith even in his dying moments and I am certain he
has gone to the right place now to be with all the angels and saints.
As always, the ones who are left behind in this world suffer the most
as we share the same bereavement with the members of Chitra's immediate
family members. May the good Lord continue to give strength and comfort
to Chitra's loving brother Mohan, his dearest mother and his darling wife
Marina and affectionate children Arjanna and Aaron. Our prayers are with
you at this very difficult moment.
I want to write so much about Chitra especially all those years we spent
at the SPC grounds. E. D. Karunaharan, R L Rajah, A C Johnson and late
Chitra were all like four inseparable brothers.
When I spoke to Gerrard, the President of the OBA, France, he was in a
state of unbelievable shock. Chitra was their 'Guest of Honour' in March
2003 for their SPC day celebrations. Gerrard was Chitra's basketball captain
in 1971. Gerrard had the privilege of spending two weeks with his family
in France, after he completed his tour with the Sri Lankan Women's Basketball
Team.
Although we have lost a dear friend, he will always be with us in spirit.
He would be the first one to tell us that life has to go on. It is time
to reminisce and cherish all the good times that we spent with our dearest
Chitra. My last fondest memory of him was on our return journey from Our
Lady of Walsingham, Chitra was standing in the coach singing a Tamil oldie.
He just didn't sing but entertained us with his imitation popular screen
idols like MGR & Shivaji. He loved life. He was a very fun loving
person. I was very fortunate to have had very long conversations with
him recently, in between his trips to Madras for his treatments. Both
of us had great laughs talking about our adventurous Jafffna days including
his 'silencer removed Lambretta scooter' and the noise it made.... He
said removing the silencer was intentional so that HFC girls would recognize
his whereabouts from that noise. Well, to make it short, he was loved
by all.
Sadly since my SPC school days I didn't meet him until at our 2001 re-union
but my late sister Angeline bumped into him on several occasions in Colombo.
She told me how effectively he controlled the traffic of the entire Fort/Pettah
area in his early days with Police as a Sub-Inspector. He made every Jaffna
man and a Patrician feel very proud to see that 'A Jaffna Tamil' police
officer controlling the entire Pettah and Fort traffic...it was an amazing
scene to watch indeed. He would stop the entire traffic and let my sister
cross the road. Later once my brother Tim met him, he had said that he
was one of late Premadasa's Traffic Officers. Once he had a narrow shave
when was only a few feet away, when late President Premadasa was killed
with the bomb-blast!. For me it was a miracle indeed!!.
Chitra loved his sports. He took part in Athletics, Basketball, Cricket
and Football. His best-loved sport was basketball. He won the "ALL
STAR" award along with Ed Karunaharan in Colombo 'Under 19 schools
tournament'. He was a member of Ceylon Schools team that toured India.
He introduced basketball to HFC, Jaffna Hindu College, Manipay and to
several other schools. Most of all, I remember his "very best moment
in sport" was when he was asked to keep goals for the first eleven
SPC team that played St Henry's @ Illavalai, no sooner when Chitra had
just finished playing his second eleven game. Hardly five minutes into
first eleven match,our star goalkeeper Johnson was knocked out and was
badly injured... so once again Chitra was brought requested to fill-in,
which he most willingly did. History was made for him when SPC beat St.
Henry's by 1 goal and Chitra held clean sheets by playing for second and
first eleven in the same afternoon same day. This match took place as
soon as our late Fr. Francis took over the Rectorship at St Henry's. As
usual, there was lots of tension before and after the match, as Fr Francis
wanted St Henry's to beat SPC. I have seen few star goalkeepers at SPC
but this particular match was an exception.
Chitra continued his basketball even after he left our school. He became
coach cum Manager of the Police teams also later with the Sri Lankan basketball
federation. He toured many countries as manager cum coach both men/women
Police/Sri Lankan teams.
I can go on and on but I am sorry I am not in the best of health today
to continue, down with flu but I am sure Raju, Dilip, Satha, especially
Johnson and others will like to add more. Also, please send in your sympathy
messages to Ferdi and he will collate them on behalf of us.
I think one person we will never know how to thank is none other than
our Ferdi. If not for him I think so many of us wouldn't have been re-united.
Having attended 2001 and 2004 reunions, Chitra was very keen to make the
2007 SL re-union a grand success. He had provisionally negotiated accommodation
for expected guests at the SPC Matthew block halls with Fr Rector.
It is a great achievement for any Tamilian to even get into the forces
let alone a Sub-Inspector's post. But Chitra charted his course cleverly
into the Police force and had a meteoric rise, surviving all odds, despite
being a minority in the war torn racially biased Sri Lanka and eventually
emerged as an outstanding 'Star' Superintendent of Police, at a remarkably
young age. It was not an easy task for an average person to do. But then
Chitra was an outstanding individual. We are really proud of you Chitra.
Wish we had few more years to spend together, but who can question HIM
or HIS authority and none of us can.
Chitra was a gentle giant, childish, playful but most of all very helpful.
Well Done My DEAREST FRIEND. Until we meet again, good-bye.
MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family,
Mohan family and their mum at this most difficult time.
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